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Coping with Hurricane Katrina
Taking Care of
Yourself After A Traumatic Event
Everyone who is in
any way involved with a
disaster or traumatic event may experience trauma reactions. You
might experience these reactions if you:
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Were a witness
or were involved in the event.
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Arrived upon the
scene of the event.
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Had a "near
miss" or were almost involved in the event.
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Knew or know
others who were killed, harmed, or involved in some way.
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Have a
relationship with family or friends of victims.
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Have heard a lot
about the event through media or friends.
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Are reminded of
other traumatic incidents in your life by this event.
Trauma reactions
are normal reactions to extremely
abnormal circumstances. It is difficult to predict what
type of trauma reactions you will experience following a disastrous
event. It is important to allow yourself permission to have your
reactions, and take care of them both by yourself and by asking for
help from others, as best you can. Many people find it helpful to
have information about what constitutes a typical reaction to trauma.
Typical
Reactions To Trauma
Not everyone
experiences the same set of responses to trauma, but people typically
experience reactions that fall into four basic categories. Here are
some reactions that you may be experiencing:
Psychological
and Emotional
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Heightened
anxiety or fear
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Irritability,
restlessness, or over-excitability
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Feelings of
sadness, moodiness, more crying than usual
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Feelings of
helplessness or hopelessness
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Feelings of
numbness or detachment
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"Survivor
guilt", or feelings of self-blame that you escaped the tragedy
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Re-experiencing
of the traumatic event, possibly including:
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intrusive
thoughts or images of the event
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distressing
dreams or nightmares
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flashbacks
about the event
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distress when
exposed to events that remind you of the trauma
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Feelings of
estrangement or isolation from others
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Hypervigilance
(feelings especially attuned to events around you, scanning
environment for possible danger)
Cognitive
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Difficulty
concentrating
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Feelings
confused or distracted, slower thought than normal
Physical
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Heacaches
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Nausea or upset
stomach
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Exaggerated
startle response (tendency to startle easily at loud noises)
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Fatigue or
feelings slowed down
Behavioral
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Hyperactivity,
or less activity
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Heightened
tendency to behave irritably
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Withdrawal,
social isolation
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Avoidance of
activities or places that remind you of traumatic event
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Insomnia
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Strong need to
talk about the event, read accounts about the event
You may recognize
yourself as experiencing some of the above reactions. Remember that
your response is normal. Immediately following a traumatic event you
will probably feel disrupted, dazed, and somewhat confused. You will
notice that you are not behaving as you typically would. It is
important to take care of yourself as best you can. Here are some
self-care suggestions for you.
Self Care
Keep reminding
yourself that your responses are
normal responses to a stressful situation. Give yourself
permission to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself.
Your body and mind will tell you what you need to do--your job is to
listen to them.
Get plenty of rest
when you're tired, and use the energy you have if you experience
hyperactivity at times. Don't force yourself to be active if you
don't have the energy, or rest when you feel tired.
Talk to people as
much as you need to. Reach out. You may experience a need to talk
repetitively about the trauma. If you can find someone who is willing
to listen, use her/him to talk to about how you are feeling. If you
do not have anyone in your support network to use, consider calling a
crisis line, going to a crisis center, or using other community
resources--they are there to help you.
Spend time with
others, even if you don't feel like talking. It can be very
comforting to know you're not alone. Try to find someone or someplace
that feels safe and comforting to you, and spend time there.
Don't make any
major life decisions or big life changes if at all possible. This is
not a time to put pressure on yourself to do anything out of the
ordinary. Concentrate on taking care of yourself.
Do things that
feel good to you--take baths, read, exercise, watch television, spend
time with friends and family, fix yourself a special treat, or
whatever else feels nurturing and self-caring.
Allow yourself to
cry, rage, and express your feelings when you need to. Try not to
numb your feelings with alcohol or drugs. This will only complicate
your situation.
The Process of
Recovery
It is important to
know that recovering from a trauma is a process that may take a long
time. The initial response of disruption (perhaps alternating with
numbness) may last days, weeks, or longer. Don't be surprised if you
continue to experience these reactions for longer than you expected.
It is impossible to predict how long you will experience effects of
the trauma, but usually trauma reactions gradually decrease over
time. If you experience another stressful event while recovering from
this trauma, you may find that your trauma reactions reappear for
awhile. This re-activation, or delayed trauma response, is perfectly
normal.
At
any time during this
process, you may find it useful to ask for professional help form a
counselor or mental health professional. There are some circumstances
under which you should definitely
get professional help:
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if you find
yourself feeling suicidal or contemplating suicide
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if you find that
your daily functioning continues to be impaired so that you cannot
carry out your life tasks
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if post-trauma
fears interfere with your ability to return to certain places or
situations that remind you of the trauma
Emergency
Literature
Emergency Survival Program (ESP)
http://www.cert-la.com/ESP.htm
The Community Emergency Response Team (CERT) Los
Angeles provides “Tips to Survive in 2005” contains excellent
educational emergency literature such as Understanding Terrorism, Be
Aware! WMD’s and ABC’s of School Preparedness.
ESP Focus Sheets from prior years
http://www.cert-la.com/ESP-Additional.htm
Cover Disasters and Threats; Organizing Your
Neighborhood; Planning, Preparing and Practicing; Food, Water &
Supplies and Tools.
American Red Cross Disaster Services – Be Prepared
http://www.redcross.org/services/disaster/beprepared/
Disaster can strike quickly and without warning. It can
force you to evacuate your neighborhood or confine you to your home.
What would you do if basic services--water, gas, electricity or
telephones--were cut off? Local officials and relief workers will be
on the scene after a disaster, but they cannot reach everyone right
away. Therefore, the best way to make your family and your home safer
is to be prepared before disaster strikes.
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