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Parents, do your children know about
strangers? Are you comfortable letting your children answer the
telephone or front door if you are home or if they are home
alone? Take a minute to go over the following safety tips with
your children. They could prevent your child from becoming a
victim of crime. It is important that you give them examples
that they will understand. Use your home, neighborhood, and
school area as settings. Make sure that your children understand
that their safety is important to you, and use the following points to
encourage discussion about this issue.
WHO IS A STRANGER?
A stranger is someone that your child does not
know. Parents and guardians need to determine who is and isn't a
stranger. Explain that strangers come in many shapes and
sizes. They can wear nice clothes, different clothes or even a
uniform. The uniform issue is confusing to children, so take
time to explain that yes, the mailman is a stranger even though he
comes to the door almost every day. This does not imply that
people who wear uniforms will harm children, but children need to know
that if they do not know the person in uniform - that person is a
stranger.
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TELL YOUR CHILD TO
FOLLOW THESE RULES ABOUT STRANGERS: |
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Never take anything like candy, ice cream or
money from a stranger |
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Never talk to strangers |
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Never take a ride from a stranger |
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If a stranger asks for directions, stay
away. Strangers shouldn't ask kids for help |
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Never give your name or address to a stranger |
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Never tell anyone that you are home alone if you
answer the telephone or door. Tell them that mom or dad
is busy. Take a message. |
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If a stranger in a car bothers
you, turn and run in the opposite direction. |
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If a stranger tries to follow you on foot or
tries to grab you. RUN AWAY, SCREAM
and TELL your parents or a trusted adult
friend. A dangerous stranger doesn't want to be the
center of attention. |
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SAFETY AT HOME:
Instruct your child on how to safely answer the door: |
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Never open the door to a stranger |
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If a stranger knocks on the door or rings the
doorbell, tell your child to look out the peep hole or call
out. "who's there?" If it's for you, your
child should tell the visitor to wait, and leave the door
locked until you are available. If you are not home,
your child should tell the visitor that you are busy and to
please come back later. Your child can take a message,
but he or she should NEVER open the door. |
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If the visitor won't go away, and your child is
scared, tell him/her to call 9-1-1 |
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How to answer the telephone: |
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When answering the telephone, your
child should not give out any information. If the caller asks,
"who's this?", instruct your child to ask who the
caller is and whom he or she called. |
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If you child is alone, he or she
should never tell anyone that he or she is alone. Instruct
your child to tell the caller the person can't come to the
telephone and that he or she will write down a message. |
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If your child feels uncomfortable or
gets scared by anything the caller says, tell him/her to hand up
and make sure he or she tells you about any and all telephone
calls. |
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If you have an answering machine, let
it answer the telephone if your child is home alone. |
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BE STREET SMART
Explain to your child how to safely walk to and from school: |
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Always walk with a friend - there is safety in
numbers. Strangers usually pick on kids that are by
themselves. |
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If you think that you are in danger, or if you
are being followed, yell and run into the nearest store, house or
back to school. Tell an adult what happened. |
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Have your Mom or Dad or both of them walk your
school route with you to make sure that it is completely safe. |
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Always stick to the same, safe route going to and
from school. Don't take shortcuts and never hitchhike. |
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When at public
places, parks markets, shopping malls, etc., always have your
parents or guardian accompany you when you need to use the restroom. |
WHAT TO DO IN AN
EMERGENCY: Explain to your child that if
someone is hurt or very sick, or there is a car accident or fire, call
9-1-1 as soon as possible. Your child needs to know that if he
or she gets lost, go to a pay phone and dial 9-1-1 to get help.
This is a free call from a pay phone.
If you have any questions, please contact deputy Shawn Brownell at
(818) 878-1808, ext. 3103. |